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    June 02

    The Proposal

    The week that I arrived to Mexico, we met at a chic luncheon to welcome myself, Caity and Lea Ellen to our new job.  He was very attentive, charming, highly educated, wealthy, and had a quirky sense of humor.  I'll call him Don Juan. 
    Don Juan started to come by my office, checking in on how my friends and I were doing.  He made arrangements to help us when our electricity went out, and taught us funny workds in Spanish.  He even took us out for dinners and dancing.  He was in a position of power over us, but it was perfectly acceptable to be friends outside of work.  I'll admit he was a bit flirtatious, but many men in Mexico are.  It was all in good fun.  I soon got caught up in work and didn't really talk to him as much. 
    One night, several months later, Caity, Don Juan and I went to the movies together.  First he dropped off Caity, and then headed towards my house.  When we pulled up to the driveway, Don Juan turned off the engine and turned to face me.  He had a sombre expression on his face, and wide eyes.  He faltered and said,
    "Sami, I have an important question to ask you. 
     
    Will you marry me?"
     
    I choked on my saliva.  Coughing, sputtering, and wheezing, I responded,
    "That will never happen".  I immediately felt contrite.  I didn't want to give him the wrong impression, but that was harsh.  Really, I was stunned.
    I tried again.  "What I want to say, Don Juan, is sorry, but I really wasn't expecting that.  Why would you ask me that question?  You don't even love me."
    He responded in ernest, "Yes Sami., I love you.  I have a list, you know?  I have a list of the qualities that I look for in the woman.  She should have a good education, talk nicely, dress nicely, and love the family.  You would make a good mother you know.  I want a woman who want to support me." Ah, he wanted intelligent eye candy.  I was almost laughing now, thinking that this poor man really bungled his proposal to a feminist.  Besides, where was the diamond for this great potential wife? 
    "Don Juan", I sighed, "we aren't looking for the same things.  I'm going to go inside now, and we'll continue being friends, ok?"  I gave him an air kiss on he cheek. 
    "Ah Sami", he replied, "you break my heart.  Why you break my heart?". 
    I laughed again and told him he would be fine.  He was fine, but didn't hesitate to remind me during my last week in Mexico that his offer was still on the table. 
     
    May 27

    Hotdogs

    I have some stories that I've kept to myself, as they seemed a bit too colourful to recount  at the time.  Now that we've all moved on to different jobs, I thought I'd finally tell them.  I'll change people's names, just in case.
    Last April, the school I was working at decided to host a special evening for a special group of students.  Myself, along with some other teachers, were invited to participate.  We all enjoyed the live music and ate some delicious tamales.
    The next day, one of the teachers came into my office to talk about the event.
    "Lupi", she said, "it was a nice time, but... I really have a problem with the tamales".  From the lilt in her voice I had an idea of where this was going, but I asked her to explain. 
    "Well, the girls, they didn't want to eat them!  They want to stay on their diets.  And the guys, they don't want the tamales either, they want something better."
    Mexico is a world were words float on the surface of deeper, hidden meanings.  This teacher was young and born into privledge, as were the students.  She saw the tamales of a symbol of poverty, of being backwards. 
    I opened my mouth to respond, to say that I was educated and fresa and loved the tamales, but I didn't even get the words out of my mouth before she continued. 
    "I just wish they had something classy and nice."
    "Like, hotdogs".
    May 23

    One Year Later

    It's now one year later since I moved back to Canada from Mexico, and I'm sure you've waited with baited breath to see what I kind of shananagins I'd get into.  I've waited myself to see what would unfold, and this is what happened.
    I got a job as an art teacher.
    I moved to a town of 4000 people, and 10 000 animals.
    I bought furniture.
    I bought a new sporty red car.
    I'm not particularily happier.  I have thought about Mexico every single day since I returned, and love my job but still feel a bit uncomfortable in the country.  Every night, the news talks about the rising cost of food, but our stores are packed with produce.  People worry about funny things, like mowing their lawns with diagonal lines, and scooping up after their pet.  White middle class women are apparently having a crisis over spots left on their glasses from the dishwasher.  I'd love to see a band of stray dogs run by, crushing these bubble worlds as they pass.  Sometimes I call people "the Canadians", and I realize that the after-shock is much stronger than the initial shock of moving to a new place.  I'll have to read back to see if I was always this cynical. 
    On the bright side, I've been back to my own art, and I'm getting some great recognition for it.  As I said, I love my job and the people in the tiny town are really nice.  I do a lot of volunteering and plan on travelling again soon.  I've been able to visit my family often, and I never want to leave them when I'm there.  I've also been able to save for laser eye surgery, to take place in one month.  I'm counting down the hours for that. 
    Thirty days until I literally see my country with new eyes.
     
    The Canadian media is roasting Mexico for its safety record, but it still fills my dreams with colour and taste. 
     
     
    May 22

    Last Postcard

    I smell like I've walked through the perfume section of a department store, from all of the hugs and kisses today.  The goodbyes have been tempered by promises of visits to Canada and Mexico.  I'm almost packed, but can't say that I'm ready to let go.
    I have lived the most beautiful, authentic, and unique life that I could choose for my self up to this point.  I have embrased being an artist, a language learner, a happy spirit, a wanderer, a thinker, and a leader.  I grew the most by being a follower though. I would do all of it a million times over, without changing a thing- I always wondered if I would feel that way at the end of my journey.   
    I've proved that I'm not afraid of change and I'm not afraid of me.  I only added, never lost.
    VIVA MEXICO!  Thank you.  I love you. 
     
    May 20

    Adios Amigos

    The word adios doesn't come up often in my conversations in Spanish, because it signifies saying goodbye to somebody for a long time.  Normally, we say hasta luego, or, see you later.  Sadly, the time has come to start saying adios
    I've said adios over lunches, parties, coffee, and walks.  Over jazz, reggaeton, and mariachi music.  I've been talking and laughing and crying so much that I've lost my voice as a result.  The voice is overrated though, when one can have a bear hug with another. 
    In general, the surrealness of my life has multiplied the past two weeks.  An on-again off-again flame decided that he loved me, and another man reminded me that his marriage proposal was still open.  Three of my friends hooked up with three of my other friends in one night.  I've seen who will just be passing through my life, and who will be there to stay.
    Last night we went to party at my favourite club, Gendarmeria, in Polanco.  It was the perfect venue, the place where everything began, where I met my favourite people and sang at the top of my lungs with the band.  This last time I was arm in arm with all of my friends on the dance floor.  There was a song about saying goodbye, and everybody was pointing at me, smiling and singing along.  I was a wreck!  It seemed the only thing to do was dance as much as possible, until the crowd thinned out, until my feet blistered and until my mouth was dry.  My Mexican sister Monsey brought me home and stayed over.  Both of us fell asleep until we heard the explosion of fireworks being set off down my street. 
    Despite waking up bone tired, I remind myself that this isn't really the time to sleep, I can do that in Canada. 
     
     
    May 13

    The Honest Lawyer

    While waiting for my bus, I looked at some music at the pirated CD stand.  The young guy working at the stand told me that he thought I had moved somewhere else.  No, I replied, I´ve just been busy.  We conversed a bit more, and he revealed that he was a law student at UNAM, the prestigious public university.
    ¨So¨, I said, ¨you´re studying law and selling illegal material?¨
    He glanced up, surprised.  ¨Yeah, you know how it is¨. 
    ¨But don´t you have to have some morals?¨, I promted.  ¨I don´t think I would want you to be my lawyer!¨
    He laughed... ¨girl, things are different here!¨
    At least he was honest about that. 
    May 12

    If I Were to Run to the Border

    | have been fixated on what it will be like for me to leave Mexico, but of course, there are fabulous things to look forward to at home.
    #1.  I miss my family. Living in a culture where family is the centre of everything makes living alone pretty sad sometimes.  
    #2.  I miss really intellectual conversations.  Most of this need stems from conversing in my intermediate level of Spanish. 
    #3   I also look forward to sharing some particiular liberal ideals with a mass of people, including environmentalism, social justice, and feminism.  I crave a recycling system.  I miss people who believe that everybody is equal, no matter their race or income.  The system isn´t perfect, but it exists. 
    #4.  I salivate for international cuisine, finding food from Mexico, India, Thailand, France...  I also look forward to being able to afford these culinary luxuries, because in Mexico they can burn holes in your pockets and wallets. 
    #5.  I will enjoy reasonable phone and internet rates, but miss a more interactive community around me. 
    #6.  The thing to look foward to the most in Canada is the understanding, tolerance and encouragement to continue living this bicultural life. 
    May 11

    Power Off, Brain On

    We´ve had daily power outages in my neighbourhood, from ten to twenty minutes at a time.  Sitting in the dark has given my brain even more time to reflect, it´s almost in overdrive. 
    I was ready to leave Brazil after a year, the place wore me out.  Leaving Italy wasn´t hard, I didn´t really attach myself and found the people could be rude to foreigners.  And Mexico?  It pulls at my heart, equally with Canada.  I´ve stopped sleeping at night. 
    When I think about what I will bring back with me from this time in my life, it won´t take up very much space in my suitcase.  I don´t want to pack the pottery, Mezcal, paintings, or silver.  I will have some photos and mementos, but the thing I will hold closest is the memories of friendship, the richness of the language, and the new way of seeing the world.
    I can tell you without hesitation how I´ve changed for the better.  I´m more outgoing and friendly with people I´ve just met.  I am more patient with the things that I know I can´t easily change.  I live more for the moment, because the future is so unpredictable.  I´ve continued to work hard (too hard), but I´ve also learned to really make use of my spare time, rather than let it just pass by.  I´ve learned to get the dreaded ¨serious Canadian look¨ off of my face, and you wouldn´t believe how much more approachable that´s made me.  I´ve convinced myself to be much more adventurous and spontaneous, but still use caution and follow my instincts, I really like the balance that I found in this regard.
    I don´t understand everything yet.  Participating in three hour meetings at work is still torture.  I just want yes to consistently mean yees.  And why can I find three sizes of plastic spoons, but no knives, anywhere?   
    In the end, the good far outweights the bad, because I´ve stayed true to myself.  I´ve changed but haven´t given up a bit of my authentic self.  If I could package the value of that, it would fill the plane. 

    News

    This week, the attack of another Canadian hit the northern news.  The police say he fell off a balcony, the family says he was assulted.  It´s hard to speculate.  I side with the Canadians with the fact that I don´t trust the police (the chief in the balcony incident is being investigated for narco connections himself) but I´m so tired of hysterics in the news.  You´ve read this rant from me before.   
    One thing I couldn´t help noticing in all of the stories that I´ve read is the presence of alcohol.  Being drunk in public here is a big no no, an embarrssment... and yet I´ve seen so many foreigners stumbling around the cities behaving stupidly.  You do have to take basic precautions here, and you can´t do that while oozing booze. 
    The rest of this weeks news is pretty standard.  A mere 10 000 Mexicans got naked in the Zocalo of Mexico City on Sunday morning.  Naked protests are popular in this modest city, but this was for a Spencer Tunick photo shoot.  Some very revealing (but tasetful) photos are located here: http://fotos.eluniversal.com.mx/fotogaleria/wfg.html?gal=3559
    Meanwhile, the narcos continued to attack each other (they are dangerous), Mexico City legalized first trimester abortions, and the pope said that the lawmakers who passed this should be excommunicated (a comment later edited by the Vatican to sound tamer). 
    In some ways it´s just another week, an in another, it´s amazing to see how much this country changes month by month. 
    May 06

    Wedding Crashers

    Ten hours of sleep the night before?  Check.  Comfortable sandals?  Check.  Formal dress dry-cleaned and ready to wear?  Check.  Date?  Check.  I was ready for Gaby's wedding.
    I was floating in dream land, when the distinctive ring of my phone alerted me that I had recieved a text message.  The screen lit up, letting me know that it was 5:40 in the morning, and that my date was going to miss the first bit of the wedding.  I hastily wrote back "Alex, I don't believe it!  Fine." and annoyed, tried to go back to bed.  When I woke up I remembered that the wedding was out of town, and I had little time to find an alternate way to get there.  After many phone calls to friends (who were sleeping and didn't answer), I ended up running to the house of a colleague and yellwed her name for 10 minutes until she came to the door and agreed that of course I could go with her. 
    The wedding was at a well known chapel in Tepozotlan, almost an hour from the city.  After a beautiful service, we went to a sunny garden and were served delicious traditional Mexican food and fruit dipped in chocolate.  The conservative style of the wedding surprised me, because Gaby is always very chic and Urban. 
    Weddings here always seem to require that you have a date, and it took me a while to realize why, but I think it has something to do with the fact that so many of the dances here require a partner.  Fortunetly, Alex showed up just in time, and he's a fabulous dancer.  Since I just learned how to dance two weeks ago, I wanted to dance to EVERYTHING, and the poor guy eventually made us sit down and have a tequila.  I jokingly reminded him that I had gone to see him at the Nike 10k race, but let up until he had recharged. 
    Gaby's wedding started at 12:30 in the afternoon, and was still going strong at 10pm.  However, Alex had a friend who was also, coincidently, getting married in Tepozotlan, and he wanted to go and meet up there.  We didn't have an invitation, but I figured if Oprah could crash weddings, I could too.
    It was strange to attend another wedding, which looked completely different, but had similar people dancing in similar dresses to the same songs that we had danced to for 8 hours before. 
    As I was dancing, a booming voice came up behind me, shouting, "Guerita!".  I whirled around, and started into the chest of my friend Red.  It was wild, because Red and I been trying to make plans the day before, until we realized that we both had weddings to attend. 
    I had a number of guys who were happy to dance with me at wedding number two, and we stayed until the lights amazingly flickered on and the wedding was called to a close at 2:30am.  What surprised me more than the early closing was my energy level- I could have gone on for another fourteen hours. 
    May 04

    Free to a Good Home?

    The person who said they wanted to take care of Xempa apparently played the "yes means no" game with me, because the past three times they were supposed to pick her up, they didn't.
    There isn't a lot of time left, so I thought I would post an add for her on Craigslist Mexico City, until I read this...
    It's worse than my friend's offers to turn her into a tasty stew!
     
    May 01

    ¡Ay, como me duele!

    Preparing to leave a country is almost as hard as preparing to get there in the first place, with all of the paperwork, packing, organizing... what nobody really talks about is the heart ache.  I feel like I´m going through a really slow break up.  I wish that none of it was so complicated- family and money vs. colour, history, and surrealism. 
    Last night, somebody said to me, ¨In developed countries, you can live comfortably.  In Mexico, you can be happy¨. 
    So I´m trying to balance all of these feelings on my past, present, and future.  There have been days where I refuse to think about any of it, completely avoid reflecting on anything that I see, knowing it will just depress me.  There are other days where I feel a desperation to make as many of my visions stay in my head as possible, whispering to myself that I will never forget what I experience.  There have been days where I want to try everything that I see (and subsequently don´t fit nicely into my jeans), and others where I don´t feel like eating anything, and shrink back to size.  It´s been stressful.  Really stressful with work on top of that. 
    Top these mind wars with the constant voices of, ¨Sami!  No te vayas¨, ¨Sami, don´t go¨.  There are so many beautiful, fun people here that I love, and that love me in return.  The friends I´ve made here are one of the things that I´ve come to value most.  It hurts me more to say goodbye to them than the people at home, because I don´t know when I´ll see these ones again, where the people at home were always sort of a given. 
    Currently, I´ve rebelled agaist the local tendency of trying to have as many goodbye parties as possible.  I want life to continue like normal, with normal parties and normal dinners, until my last weekend.  Otherwise, there are just too many tears that well up in my eyes. 
     
    April 23

    Little Miss Canada

    As you can see from my lack of posting, I've been busy.  Completely exhausted is a better description.  I'm a workaholic who has been on a marathon. 
    So what was my solution to avoiding burnout?  Working even more on the weekend, so that I would feel justified to go to a party on Saturday night. 
    Alex called me last Wednesday to invite me to a costume party downtown Mexico City.  I said sure, almost backed out two times, and then reminded myself that I had to get my fill of cultural experiences before I leave.  I couldn't decide what to go as and refused to spend money on a costume, so I left it until the last minute, letting my creativity take over fifteen minutes before being picked up.  I threw on my black dress, tuned my Olympic scarf into a sash, cut out a yellow foam crown, dug out my only tube of lipstick, and poof, I transformed myself into Miss Canada.
    The fiesta was a blast, because it was a closed off street, where every house was participating.  As you can see in a few of the pics, everybody took their duty to dress pretty seriously, with most renting elaborate getups.
    I got an invitation to dance, and before accepting, gave my usual advance apology of having the grace of a buffalo.  As we started though, it clicked, and I felt like I was floating. 
    My partner looked at my quizzically and said, "you dance just fine". 
    No saying this through a grimace, no howling in pain, no suddenly having to run off and find his cousin.  We finished and I got an invitation to dance with somebody else, in a different style.  Again the advance apologies, and again, I nailed it.  Then another dance... salsa, cumbia, banda... was it the glamourous scarf draped over my arm?  The majestic foam tiara?  Whoops, don't question the new found powers.  I danced all night, ojnly realizing that it was time to go home when the sun was shining in my face. 
    April 18

    Yeah yeah...

    My friend Gary made a point of writing to remind me that I haven´t written here lately.  Yeah yeah, I know... those who think that Mexico is laid back haven´t actually worked here.  I´m swamped.  Plus, I´ve gotten a personal trainer at the gym, and have tried to see some friends before I go... hopefully I´ll add something substancial on the weekend, because besides being a workaholic robot, I always find something fun to do. 
    April 08

    The People You Meet Along the Way

    A lot of the joys that I received from avoiding tourists is that I feel I got a more authentic and interesting experience in general.  Of course, it´s also not just where you go, but the people you meet.  Here is a summary of some of the most interesting characters up to arriving in Comitán. 
     
    • A young hotel worker had a brother who was nineteen, had met a great girl, and wanted to marry her.  Unfortunately, the family said that the older brother (the worker) had to get married first, something he didn´t see happening.  His dream was to leave Ocosingo and move to the ¨big city¨ of Tuxtla. 
    • Maria Carman, a woman we met in Miramar, was trying to sink her talons into David.  ¨Ohhh¨, she wailed, ¨I´m so lonely, so single.  I have no husband you know!  I would love a great man!  Are you married?   Yes, a good man that I could take care of.. I only have one daughter you know!  Yes, so lonely¨.  The poor dear, David has a long term boyfriend. 
    • A man pulled hmself into the combi on the way to Comitán, and loudly slurred that he was very drunk (10am).  Then he tried to take my photo, but I think he got the seat instead.  While he was passing out, his thirteen year old son was trying to convince him that this would be their chance to try and cross the border to the United States, thinking there would be less patrols since it was the Easter Weekend.  The father mumbled his blessing and slumpted over again.
    • A German teen with excellent Spanish told me that he was a high school drop out, working for an organic food farm and on his way to visit an ¨alternative¨ village full of new-age hippies. 
    • Move over Maria Carman!  Every man, woman and child thought that David was my husband (or my dad, haha), which was actually very convenient, because they treated me like a proper lady.  When I told some that I wasn´t married, they were in shock.  Sign, I´ll never have that football team I´ve dreamed of. 

     

    Saying Goodbye

    On Tuesday morning, David, our new friends from the Czech Republic and I, realized that we had to say goodbye to Miramar and continue on with the rest of our adventures.  The thought of getting back on the horse truck didn´t particulary appeal to any of us, so we inquired about another method of transportation.  In David´s words- if I hear ¨BAG¨ once more...!  One option was a plane, which would have been $200 to split between us, or a boat, $70 to split.  We settled on the boat, which was nice, except after having sat on trucks, horses, and canoes for three days, I had really bruised my backside and wished I could take this leg standing up. 
    An hour and a quarter later, the boat guide dropped us on the lush banks of a hill.  We climbed up, and found to our surprise that we were not in civilization as we had planned, but on yet another dirt road with shacks and livestock.  Furthermore, it started to rain hard.  A man came and met us on the road, leading us to his house so that we could take refuge.  It was actually lovely, sitting amongst the turkeys and a baby pig that liked to have its tummy scratched. 
    Two hours later, a combi (a public transit van) came by our section of the road, and we climbed in, travelling for another three hours to get to the city of Comitán, which hadn´t even been on my itinerary. 
    We hit a military check point, and were asked to get out of the van.  The group and I were surrounded by soldiers with machine guns as they searched our bags for weapons and drugs.  Satisfied that we weren´t criminals, we were allowed to return to the van and continue the adventure. 

    Time Warp

    One blaring observation about these remote villages in Chiapas is their different perspective on time from the rest of Mexico. 
    First, they did not follow the time change that the rest of Mexico switched to last Sunday.  A worker at my hotel put it this way: there is the government´s time, and God´s time.  We follow God´s time. 
    Second, they must feel that God is an early bird, because everything was done in a very timely manner!  We left to go to the jungle early, and every time we made arrangements for a guide or service, the people showed up at least an hour before being scheduled.  My theory is that with natural light and screeching birds as an alarm clock, there was nothing else to do but get up and get on with the day. 

    Laguna Miramar, The Lake

    The President got right down to business and took us to where we could stay.  It seemed he liked us and our reasons for arriving on his doorstep.  As we slowly walked along dirt paths, every person that we passed looked at us and politely greeted us with ¨Buenas Tardes¨.  Actually, that´s understating it.  Old men stopped their horses, women poked their heads out their doors, and children came right up to us to unabashedly gawk at us.  I tried to be subtle about looking at people and their customs, but they didn´t take their eyes off of me. 
    We stopped at a series of bright yellow cabañas.  The dwellings were immaculately clean inside, with a single electric bulb attached to the roof, a small porch, and a bathroom across the path.  We could stay there for $10 a night, or sleep in hammocks underneath a palapa (open structure with a roof).  We chose the cabañas for that night, hammocks for the next night, arranged a guide, a canoe, and then paid up. 
    I said goodnight to the scorpion in the bathroom, buenas noches to all of the moths in my room (they were attracted to that blissful light bulb) and fell into a deep sleep at 8pm... 
    My body behaved in the most annoying way, daring to wake up at 6 o´clock in the morning.  Our guide wasn´t scheduled to come until 8.  I got up anyway, bathed in the river (there was no running water) and found that David had also woken up early.   This was convenient, because our guide set his own timeline and was waiting for us at 6:45. 
    We had asked the locals what it was like to take the 7km hike to the lake, and they said it would be great.  David asked if it was difficult, and I elaborated, asking if the walk was flat or hilly.  Oh no, they said, it´s fast and pretty flat.  
    The moral of that story is that you should not ask people who have lived in a jungle all of their lives, if a hike will be easy or difficult.  We didn´t have to cut a path with a machete, which would make it easy, but on a scale of 1-10, I would rate the trail at a 7, and I jog a fair amount. 
    The most surprising part of that hike was running into men from another village who were returning from the lake.  They had a band of cloth cutting across their foreheads, which was attached to something black and boxy on their backs.  They were dragging these boxes up an extremely steep hill.  Where they coffins?  No, they were speakers and subwoofers from their party the night before.  
    When we arrived to the lake, I was in awe, and from the pictures I posted you can see why.  The canoe was waiting for us, and our guide slowly cut his paddle through the crystal clear water.  The guide tried to teach me some words in the Chol dialect, but even the simplest words were too complicated for me. 
    We went to visit a cave full of bats in the ceiling and giant tortoises under the water.   We came to ancient Mayan petraglyphs of a hand and jaguar, saw a Mayan rock carving, and hiked to a bay full of crocodiles. 
    I asked our guide why the crocodiles came to this section and not the main lake.
    ¨Oh¨, he replied, ¨there are crocodiles in the main lake too.¨
    ¨And you let me swim in there?¨ I squeaked. 
    ¨Nah, it was ok, they like it there more in the night¨. 
    One of the things I wanted to do the most, which was visit the island with the ruins, was not possible, because the neighbouring village was in charge of that area and had closed it to tourists. 
    I was prepared to see a lot of wildlife, but it turns out that the savage animals were going to bed at 8am.  I could hear the howler monkeys (like lions) and saw a lot of fish, birds, and crocs.  The only mammal that I saw was a poor little spider monkey, dead on the jungle floor.   
    The day was deliriously beautiful, and it had been worth traveling almost 8 hours to get to see the area.  Some of the village leaders told David and I that when they were making council decisions, they had to think hard about what kind of legacy they wanted to leave for their children, and then decided to get advice on a 100% protection and anti-pollution policy, along with a real eco-tourism project.  It seems that the most poor, simple people on our planet can have the wisest visions on how we need to take care of our earth.   
    April 05

    Laguna Miramar, The Journey

    On Saturday night, I was relaxing at my hotel in the pretty little city of Ocosingo.  As I was walking past the foyer, I heard a voice speaking Spanish with an American accent, talking about going into the jungle.  Curious, I wandered over and joined the conversation.  The voice belonged to David, a 45 year old elementary teacher in Mexico City, and he was going to the very remote Laguna/Lagoon of Miramar.  I had done a lot of research about this trip about two years ago, but didn`t think it would be possible to do by myself.  The idea now bounced wildly around my brain, and  I felt that even though I had no idea what I was doing, and would be cancelling my previous plans, that I would just get my things together and do it.  We planned to leave at 8am the next morning. 
    When we got to the transportation area the following day, we were direcoted to a truck, which is a loose interpretation, because what we found was a cross between a modified horse carriage and a giant grocery crate with wheels.  The groceries received first priority, and then women and children, for seats.  I sat down on a wooden plank, while the men stood or perched themselves on a metal frame.  I wedged my body between a crate of avocados and an indigenous woman and her 3 year old daughter.  The young girl threw up as soon as we hit the rougher road, and her mother kept yelling at the dozing men, ¨bag... BAG!¨. 
    The pavement turned to dirt, and we weaved around the side of mountains, sometimes tipping precariously or slowing to a crawl where the road had fallen off the side of a cliff.  I didn`t look.
    We dipped into valleys, avoiding all of the livestock that had congregated on the sides.  At first the trip seemed wild, savage and romantic.  Then it almost seemed boring (after hour 5), and after the 6th hour, I was becoming a little desperate to get off the truck and into the village, any village. 
    As we passed the tiny hamlets, I realized that no particular stereotype could be made.  Some places were so poor that the houses were made of old wooden planks and loosely thatched roofs, with no running water or electricity.  Some places announced that they had one public phone.  Throughout, many women wore traditional costumes, bright and immaculately clean.  I saw that they wore these not for tourism, but for themselves.  The final observation?  Coca Cola can be found on the most remote parts of earth. 
    Rambling inside of the truck for 6.5 hours, we got to know a little more about our companions.  Most were from Ocosingo and were going to visit family in the jungle town of San Quentin, which David and I called the Metropolis of the Jungle, due to the fact that it had a well formed road. 
    We arrived to San Quentin and gently lowered our weary bodies from the truck.  We walked past a military base and down a long dirt road, until we got to the village of Emilio Zapata (named after the hero).  We asked for the President of Tourism, and were directed to the last house on the road.  He was there and warmly led us into the village, promising that we were welcome and would love the Laguna Miramar...
     
    March 31

    Curious George

    I am in Chiapas!  It´s a good thing I started running again this week, it was enough preparation to RUN to the boarding gate at the airport (Mexicana Airlines has nice planes but horrible service!).
    I had a little itirnerary of things to do up to Wednesday, before going to San Cristobal, but this is now going down the drain in order to go on an adventure I had been thinking about for two years, but didn´t see the possibility in.  I´ve found an elementary school teacher who is going, and decided to hop on board.
    We will leave the town of Ocosingo at 9 in the morning, and get on a truck that will take us 130 kms west, to a lake called Miramar, deep in the jungle of Lacandona.  The ride will take about 7 hours because of the roads.  When we get there, we will have to ask the village leader for permission to stay there, must guarantee that we will rent a guide, and will hopefully stay with Mayan families as boarders.  The lake is pristine, no boats allowed, no pollution, almost no civilization.  It´s full of alligators, howler monkeys, and has an island with Mayan ruins that you have to canoe to.
    I´ve never been so excited to leave civilization!  Updates and photos will follow on Tuesday- if we get permission to stay, and avoid becoming gourmet reptilian food ;)
     
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